Delusional Girl Tries To Ruin Best Friend's Relationship (Reddit Thread)

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AmyBrown
Feb 24, 2020 2:30 PM EST

In a now deleted post on Reddit's r/relatioship_advice, a 22-year-old woman tried to convince the world (and probably herself) that her best friend should be with her... and not his current girlfriend.

After sharing her side of the story, Redditors encouraged her to send the link to this best friend of hers. And, well, she did. 

The respond back? Awkward. Awkward. Awkward. 

We understand why this post was deleted.  

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    Font - I'm [F22] in love with my best friend [M26], he won't leave his loser GF [F24] for me. ThrowRA-Ihateherguts 3 hours ago* relationship_advice O. 15% upvoted
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    Text - I know the title makes me seem like a bitch but I couldn't think of another way to summarize it in one go. We'll call him Dean and we'll call his gf Helen. Basically, I'm a university student, and I interned at a marketing company over the last few Summers. Dean was my boss there and we became really close friends. Our friendship moved outside of work, and I no longer intern there at all. The more we talked, the more I fell for him. He's incredible, hardworking, successful, funny, the who
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    Text - His girlfriend is not, imo. She's actually a loser. She's uneducated and unemployed. Helen dropped out of high school because of family problems. Apparently her Mom has severe anxiety and depression, overdosed multiple times when Helen was a kid, and would have breakdowns/threaten to hurt herself if she was left alone. So, Helen stayed home with her, and still does when necessary, because her father can't get retired. Over the years, Helen had admitted it's weighed on her own mental healt
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    Text - Dean and I have talked about it many times. He insists she's doing her best, that she does all the cooking, cleaning, laundry, yardwork, etc... at her home. She gets a very small amount of money from her father for this weekly. She also does video game streaming and makes some money from that. Barely any, I think. They've been together for 5 years, and he's come to term with the fact she may never work or get educated (Dean has a marketing degree), but he doesn't seem to care. He says he
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    Text - I DM'd him asking him why he's even in love with her, how he fell in love with her, just why. I don't get it. He can do so much better. He said this: "I fell in love with her for many reasons. She's sweet, kind, cute, and she always sees the best in people even with everything that she's been through. I think she's funny, beautiful, intelligent and is always trying to do some good. I like that she's random, silly, quirky and passionate af. I like how competitive she is, because I'm compet
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    Text - I told him how I felt about him, how I'm in love with him, and that I wished she wasn't around. He said: "Well I'm lucky that she is. I don't know what'd l'd do without her." I told him he's just comfortable, and he's staying with her cause it's been a long time. That I've been at a place in my life where I thought I couldn't go on without certain people but I survived, and he would too. He said this: "Well, I don't want to. So l'd appreciate you not saying things like "I wish she wasn't
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    Text - So, he adamantly won't leave her. And I don't understand why. With the little money she earns, she saves up to do some very special things for him. Got him a cameo from his favourite actress, took him to see his favourite sports team in the playoffs, got him a PS4, she's taking him to his favourite band this Summer. She also does "sweet" stuff for him like give him random cards, drawings, paintings, crap like that. I think maybe that's the real reason he stays with her, but I could do tha
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    Text - TooManyAnts 16h Link him to this reddit post and he'll be able to see where you're coming from in a way that's clearer than text messages (which are short and impersonal). He'll see it with super clear eyes, and he'll probably even realize he needs to take the problem person out of his life. Your replies in particular will show him everything he hasn't realized. Reply 1 11
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    Text - ThrowRA-Ihateherguts 16h So you agree she's a problem? Thank you. People in this post are judging me so hard and l'm trying to stand by myself because I know what I believe in here is what's right for me and him. I'm giving him some time to cool off but l'll link it to him this weekend. Vote TooManyAnts - 16h Might want to do it sooner than later, there's a decent chance this thread won't be around by the weekend. l'd be a little surprised if it made it to the end of today. ThrowRA-Ihateh
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    Text - Throwaway3883744444 15 points 8 hours ago · & 2 L, you linked me to this post so I could understand you better and now I do. love my girlfriend more than life in itself. I've been with her for five years for a reason. Not because of what she can offer me financially but because of who she is as a person. That's what matters to me. I'll work 3 jobs if it means keeping her. For example, she once spent 2 hours travelling in the rain to bring my sick Mom some homemade soup. Money doesn't buy
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    Text - I tried to be your friend because you seemed lonely, when we worked together, you said your roommates don't talk to you, and your family is back in your home country. We never had a future together. It's not even a possibility. I will protect that woman at all costs and it really hurts me to see you talking shit about her to strangers on the internet. I hope you'll have the integrity to take this down. Maybe it's best we don't stay friends for now and see where things head. You sent me th
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